In the State of Missouri, why would someone write caregiver checks to himself?
My sister is writing checks each month for caregiver services from my mother's account to herself and cashing them. Why would she do this?
My sister lives rent and board free, pays no utilities and never has. My mother pays all bills for the home and living expenses. My sister pockets all her own money. My parents' wishes were for my sister and I to half everything upon their deaths. However, I know that my sister has required one property in her name already and I fear she will have everything in her name before long and keep me from getting anything. My name was on the accounts but not on her personal acct so I cannot know just how much she is putting into IRA accounts, etc. She is living there completely free with total control of our mother's finances and says there is no money which I doubt. What do I do?