Do I give it another chance?
I was with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years! We broke up because we argued a lot and I has suspicions that he cheated on me. He treated me so bad but I still loved him and was always willing to make us work but he never seemed to put in the effort so I gave up. We hadn't broke up two weeks and he was in a relationship with another girl.he lied to me about it so I cut contact with him. We didn't speak for about four months until he contacted me one night and we became just friends again.he had previously finished the relationship with the other girl but started seeing some one else now.I also started seeing someone else too. A couple of weeks later he text me saying that he had made the biggest mistake of his life letting me go that he realised what he had done and promised me that he had changed and would never treat me like that again.I told him no that I was with someone else now and that he was too but he said that he didn't love her that it was me he loved.a week later they broke up. I continued being friends with him and we meet every now and again for a chat and I have realised that I still love him too. He is still asking me to get back with him but is it a bad idea to get back with an ex and risk the relationship that I am in now?
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Thank you for your advice. Is it even a bad idea to stay friends with him or should I totally cut contact? I was really happy with my current boyfriend until we started meeting up and he started asking me back
Having a hard time dealing with my break up!
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I have gone no contact and I am finding it really hard dealing with this break up. I just feel so alone!what can I do to help me get over this quickly?
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Thank you for your advice but I don't even know where to start getting my life back on track! I have my phone off for the last 2 days and cannot find the strength to get out of bed!