Hi have been married for 6 and a half years now, we had a perfect marriage I would say until we had our son, my life changed, but I started to notice that my husband didn't want to change his life, he stills goes out 2 to 3 times a week. It started to become a problem when my son didn't want to spend time with his dad and would cry if I left the room even just to go to the bathroom. Even got to the point when I became very sick and ask my husband not to go to a work function because I didn't think I could look after my son until 12pm at night when I felt so unwell and my husband said no he wouldn't stay at home and went out. That's when I saw a different side to my husband. Then I went to my husband football end of year party and noticed a girl acting too friendly to my husband and notice she was the same girl who would write a lot on my husbands Facebook page. Anyway I got very upset with this cause he didn't put this girl in her place and he goes to the football club twice a week and she is always there. To cut a long story short we worked on this issue, but it has been one year since the football club party I told my husband I don't want to go this year because it was one of my worst nights I have ever had, I was kind of hoping that he would know how much it upset me and he wouldn't want to go either. Anyway he told me last week that he still wants to go to the party eventho it means he will go on his own. What I want to know I am overeacting and getting upset for nothing and I should just let it go or should I make an issue about it?