He has a girlfriend, said he loves me. But won't leave her. Cheated on her with me, nothing serious, but said he's feeling guilty about it. He runs a huge risk by seeign me, There's an age gap of 6 years and Im 16. Do you reckon he regrets kissing/being with me? I really like him, but don't know whether he's just leading me on =S advice anyone? X

Sorry to be the one to break this to you, but he's using you, he's got a g/f who he's cheating on, and you're mostly in his life as a back up babe, no more no less, dump him he's no good to you or anyone else, men or boys who can't keep their trousers on for one girl alone, are time wasters and heart breakers.

Drop him on his a$$e and move on he's not for you.

Never settle for less than the best and never encourage any male to hurt a female. Its wrong and so is he. Lose the cheater. Seriously...


Also you're 16 you're basically just starting on the dating scene, don't start by being 1st reserve, you never ever take a back seat to another, if its not you whose number one in his lfe then get out of it, Don't allow yourself to be used by a cheater and a waster. Go for the best, or don't go at all...

He's a cheater. Need we say more?

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Yes he's using you. He wanted a piece on the side. I hope you used protection because you may not be the only one.
If he loved you, there would not be a girl friend.
Leave this creep alone.
Do you live in the US?

No the uk

I bet he's worried.

He's 22 and he's been with a 16 year old,his girlfriend is the least of his worries.

If this get out he won't be able to live it down,his parents,where he works,his reputation would go down the drain is an flash.

For you,its time to move on,he is not going to leave her and he's is never going to be with you as boyfriend and girlfriend.

Next time he's talking to you tell him to take a running jump of a high cliff and out of your life.

You don't need this kind of aggro,if your parents found out,I'm sure they would hit the roof.

Stick to boys your own age,and stay away from creeps (and that's what he is) who take advantage of young teenagers.

erm, actually... Im not 16, slight tyepo =S Im 15... and yes my parents wuld kill.

Why not simply find someone else your own age?

Why put yourself in such a complicated situation that can have legal consequences?

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erm, actually... Im not 16, slight tyepo =S Im 15... and yes my parents wuld kill.

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There you go.

So you see why he is worried.

If he has had sex with you he has broken the law.

Do you really need this kind of man complicating your life?

no.

You need to take care of yourself,don't talk to this man again,if he comes near you,tell your parents.

I would be of the mind to tell them anyway,at 22 he knew what he was doing,and even though your 15 and able to make choices and decisions,you could be led astray.

Make better choices,make better decisions.

Your not a little kid,but you still need your parents to protect you.

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there you go.

so you see why he is worried.

if he has had sex with you he has broken the law.

do you really need this kind of man complicating your life?

no.

you need to take care of yourself,dont talk to this man again,if he comes near you,tell your parents.

i would be of the mind to tell them anyway,at 22 he knew what he was doing,and even though your 15 and able to make choices and decisions,you could be led astray.

make better choices,make better decisions.

your not a little kid,but you still need your parents to protect you.

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They do know... my mom threatened 2 call the police if she sees him with me again, she's also talked to him an stuff telling hin 2 piss off. But I'm still seeing him...

This guy is bad news and he likes teen age tail. Stay away from him. You might want to tell your parents if he does not accept "stay away from me" from you.

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they do know... my mom threatend 2 call the police if she sees him with me again, she's also talked to him an stuff tellin hin 2 piss off. But im still seeing him...

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Why?

Why are you still seeing him,I don't understand.

You can't go anywhere with him,you can't do the things he can do,he's not very smart (hes still seeing you,when he has told not too)..

What's he got that you want or need?

Does he say nice things to you,make you feel special?

He says those things to get you to do what he wants,he's using you.

And if he continues he's going to be in a world of trouble.

Why are you still seeing this guy. Why are you still participating in a cheating relationship?
If you're thinking this guy is going to leave his girl friend you are fooling yourself. Are you having protected sex with him? How do you know he is not also seeing someone else.
Girl you are not only disobeying your parents, but this guy can go to jail if your parents find out and pursue this.
He does not feel anything for you but lust. He has been told to stay away from you, so he not only has no respect for his girl friend or you, but none for your parents either.
Is this the kind of guy you want to be attached to, someone who cheats on his girl friend but can possibly alienate you from your family?