OK so I have a problem which I am too embarrassed to go to the doctors about, here goes. I have been with my partner for a year within which I have had a miscarriage I also had one with my previous partner, since then every time me and my parter have sex its really painful and I often bleed afterwards I also become very sore we have tried lubrication which doesn't seem to help at all and we are hoping to have a baby in the next year or so but with sex being this painfull I am worried that things might not be quite right 'down there' but I am so scared of seeing a doctor as s/he might want me to have a smear test and that terrifies me because of how painfull sex is. Has anyone else ever had a problem similar to this that could shead some light over it?