Confused and cant get over him.
Hey. I really need some help.. Im 17 and I had been dating a guy for a year, I was head over heals in love. He was perfect, he texted me all the time saying how he's so lucky he can't live without me etc, called all the time, and insisted on seeing me almost every single day, which I loved.. Hes my first and only sexual partner.. At the beginning of our relationship he was at a bar and kissed another girl, but I forgave him because he was drunk. About a month ago, he told me he didn't know if he wanted us to stay be together. I was distraught but less than an hour later he called saying he regrets doing that so much and he needs me. Happy days.. A week later we got into a fight, I suggested that he may want to brake up and he said he did. He cried and cried and cried saying how hard it'll be for over a week.. The next few days we spent just the two of us, kissing and hugging and saying he loves me. He asked could we get back together after a few weeks. A week later he changed his mind, he wanted to stay broke up, and has started messing around with other girls.. Im so heartbroken and I don't know what to do. He wants to be best friends but its so hard. I can't be around him, but I can't not be around him :( help. Please
Keep apologising or leave him be? Help !
Im 17.Me and my boyfriend of a year recently broke up. He had warned me for months and months that if we ended, he would hate me if I went near any of his friends. A month after we broke up me and him went to a bar with a group of friends, and I ended up kissing a pal of his, being drunk and stupid. I was so hurt about breaking up and didn't think.He had kissed a few others also, not my friends though. He went mad and left the bar, smashing bottles and kicking walls. I chased him begging for forgiveness but he didn't want to hear it and hopped into a taxi.This was 2weeks ago and I have been apologising like crazy, but He recently found out from my friend that I was into another guy. He deleted my number saying he didn't want to know me because of this (even though he dumped me). He kept asking who it was and I eventually told him. It was a borderline enemy of his, they just never hit it off. He stormed off in a huff, the next day I notice on Facebook his status is, "your gone for good now"... Please help! Do I forget him because he's moved on :( or do I keep apologising.. I want him back so bad but I know its not going to happen now :(