My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 weeks and 3 days, it was great at first but now it's weird. I was on the phone to her last night and she said I am not happy, I am negative and put's her down and she hate's it when I am interractive with her mum, commnicating. I suffer Bi-polar and anorexia, but she hasn't mentioned anything about that, she said me and will give it another try and I promise to make her happy then before, how do I become less concentrated with her but still have time for her?

Find out what she is unhappy about and work to fix it. Its always a big red flag when problems surface so soon in a relationship, and maybe you pay attention when a person has personal issues you are not aware of.

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Originally Posted by rockstar94

i promise to make her happy

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No, no, no. You don't make HER happy. You make YOU happy, so then she will be happy because she is reacting to your happiness.

How can you make yourself happy?

I agree with both Tal and Wondergirl!

Problems this early is not good... but wondergirl has a good point! You need to make you happy... which really makes sense cause if you don't work with your own problems and bring a little happiness to your life.. well living to make someone else happy won't really work in the long run...

Are you recieveing threatment of anykind for the Bi-polar and anorexia? (medication, therapy?)

Both Bi-polar and anoexia are serious issues... and they do need to be dealt with. How old are the two of you by the way?

You have to know what the problems and causes are before you can fix anything.

You can't make anyone love you or be happy with you. Just worry about you!