Originally Posted by bdavis1
I am 27 years old. My wife is 26. We have two great children ages 6 and 7 1/2 (yes we started early). In April, we will have been married 7 years. Now, I know people's sex drives drop off quite a bit but at this point I am lucky if we have sex once a month. We used to be very adventrous. Oral is maybe a once a year thing now and she rarely lets me go down on her either. I know self consciousness is an issue for her. Her body is (obviously) not how it was before marriage. She was only 19, tiny and we have since had children. She is still petite and knows that I still find her sexually attractive. I need some suggestions to 1) Make her realize she is still beautiful 2) Figure out how to put some spice back in our relationship. We are still young and it really shouldnt be like this yet.