Ok well I saw some threads on this forum with answers that I really liked so I wanted to see if anyone could help me out with my little situation.
About a month ago me and my girlfriend broke up (Her being 17 and me being 18). Our relationship sort of went down hill ever since I graduated high school and moved on to college. In my opinion she began to get worried that id find someone better even though I tried to re assure her she was the one for me. This was about half way through our year and a half relationship. Even though this relationship was a rollercoaster I still find myself wanting to be with her feeling as if I know exactly how to treat her to make her 100% happy now.
The other day we got in touch for the first time *It being a month after the break up*. I have been doing the whole no communication thing and it seemed to work having her wanting to get back with me now but tonight things got really tricky. Now I don't know if she wants to be with me or if she's just playing around.
Summary of the last three days is like this. Day 1 We saw each other at the mall I tried to play it off like I didn't see her but she ran up to me. She appologized for treating me like crap and explained that she only did it because she thought it would help her get over me. After that I decided to hang out with her for a few hours and just talk about things.
Day 2 we basically told each other we both still cared and wanted to try to make things work out. Even though we didn't see each other we kept in touch the whole day and both seemed to enjoy the time we spent on the phone.
Day 3 was amazing up until the end. We went to a movie and dinner, the movie being her choice which she chose something scary and I found myself with my arm around her the whole time, and than dinner was amazing to. After I dropped her off at home however and called her to tell her I got home and I'm safe (due to a ice storm) she began to get really quiet and "Annoyed". Reason behind this is because she didn't want our families to know we were together yet and she didn't feel ready for us to tell everyone thinking that they won't approve. She than told me than I had broken a promise because I told her I wouldn't tell anyone "Which I did because I was excited and have a close relationship with my parents". Soon after she said that she's not sure what she's wants to do about the situation now and I lie here thinking about everything. I can honestly say that I didn't think I ed up this time and I believe she is trying to play with my emotions but I truly do love this girl and wish she could love me the same way.
Thank you for the people who read this and hopefully someone can tell me what they think I should do. I just want to know if I'm thinking about the situation too much or I don't know... I honestly don't know what I'm looking to find out here after typing this I just wish someone could give me there take on things or something