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  • Nov 18, 2009, 03:46 PM
    Shelbiegt1
    New born
    Hello I am Shelbie, What rights does a young teen father to his new born baby if the mom don't want the baby?
  • Nov 18, 2009, 04:12 PM
    cdad

    What state are you in and is the child born yet ?
  • Nov 18, 2009, 05:06 PM
    stevetcg

    The same rights as if she does. He can file for visitation, custody or sole custody. He can allow or disallow an adoption.

    What does the mom want to do? He has no rights if she wants an abortion, by the way.
  • Nov 18, 2009, 05:53 PM
    Shelbiegt1
    Baby,s mom don't want baby
    If a mother don't want to keep a new born baby (parents not married) and the dad wants to have the baby, can a mother keep the baby away from the dad? ( no danger for the dad) She don't want to let the dad have the baby, wants to give it to a family member.
  • Nov 18, 2009, 05:54 PM
    J_9
    Sorry, but the father has a right to decide who the baby can go to. If he wants it and she doesn't guess where that baby goes. To the father.
  • Nov 18, 2009, 05:57 PM
    Synnen

    I have to say here that if the child isn't born yet, he needs to get on the putative father listing in his state (if his state has one) and get a lawyer. If she decides that she REALLY wants to do an adoption, she'll lie about who the father is, and then he'd have to fight to have the adoption overturned. So often, that takes enough time that the adoptive parents and child have bonded--and a court may rule in favor of leaving the child where it is, as being in the best interest of the child.

    Nine times out of ten, if the birthmother can't choose adoption over the father raising the child, she decides to parent after all.
  • Nov 18, 2009, 05:58 PM
    Shelbiegt1

    Fl, yes the baby was born 11-17-09
  • Nov 18, 2009, 06:00 PM
    Shelbiegt1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by califdadof3 View Post
    What state are you in and is the child born yet ?

    Yes the baby was born 11-17-09 State is FL
  • Nov 18, 2009, 06:01 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Shelbiegt1 View Post
    Fl, yes the baby was born 11-17-09

    Then the father has the same rights as the mother does.
  • Nov 18, 2009, 06:03 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    I have to say here that if the child isn't born yet,

    The child was born November 17, 2009...

    Found here... https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...rn-417269.html
  • Nov 18, 2009, 06:12 PM
    cdad

    The father needs to go to court right away and prevent the mother from performing a baby drop off. That way he can assert his rights as soon as the courts give them to him.

    Safe Haven Laws.

    http://www.childwelfare.gov/systemwi.../safehaven.cfm



    Its sad but under laws like these the fathers have almost no rights once the child is turned over.

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