Ive been broken up with girlfriend for a 2 months now. I want to win her back. She goes to the same school as me. I talk to everyday I keep the conversation short and nice. I try not to act desperate. I want her back so bad. I want her to be attract to me again

It's her choice if she wants to take you back. You don't win someone back. She's not a prize.

You broke up for a reason. If she doesn't want to get back with you, then you have to respect her wishes. You can't force someone to be with you. That would be controlling.

So just let it be until she misses you?

Have you told her you want her back?

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Originally Posted by NZimmick1

so just let it be until she misses you?

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You broke up for a reason. Obviously you're willing to fix whatever problems you have, but it doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to fix the problems. If she doesn't want to, then you can't force her.

If one day she comes back to you, then great. But you have to accept the reality that she might never take you back and there's nothing you can do about that. You can't force her to go back with you. Feelings can't be forced, it has to be natural.

It's time to start moving on with your life. Meet new people. Read the stickies at the top of the page: Relationships - Ask Me Help Desk

Yes I told I want her back. I love her.

How old are you? How old is she?

She just gave me a text in my 2nd hour saying, " i miss you.." I didn't reply because I wanted to ignore her. When I went out of my 2nd hour she saw me and smiled and opened up a conversation, she was flirting and being herself. What do I do?

All right so I received a text in my 2nd hour saying, "I miss you.." I didn't reply. When I went out of class she saw me and opened up a conversation and flirted with me acting like her old self. What do I do? She is taken. Do I play it slow? Be nice?

You guys sound like school kids, so my advice is not to ignore her, but ask her if she misses you enough to take you back. If she doesn't, then you will know your wasting your time, and need to move on.