Im in Germany my Husband in the US he just calls me once a week.
Hello to everybody and already thank you for your help..
My Husband and me just got merried two weeks ago, I had to go back to Germany because I got to take care of some things, before I finally move over there. We bought a house together in the US and have a baby on the way.. everything was just fine. Well 3 days ago I returned to Germany and since then I haven't heard any from him, I called him then that I made I back to Germany OK, and he just gave me the feeling that I go on his nerves. So we had a fight and lots of Arguments, well got angry and told me that he calls me once a week and I don't need to expect a textmessage everyday. I was just shocked, I mean I don't need to talk every day at all, but how you suppost to stay in touch without talking about what the other person does. Or what's going on, I mean we have a lot to take care of -he over there, I'm overhere. If I want to talk to him I feel like I cant. His best friend lets him stay at his place until the closing of the house is done, I just feel like I'm Nr. 2 since then.
Am I overreacting?
I mean how can you go from getting merried and being witheachother every day to calling me once a week?
I know he isn't a very emotional person, but still. He does not even tells me if he goes out, I mean I'm fine with that, but I at least would like to know. He just makes a big secret out of things and tells me that he don't need to tell me every little thing he does.
Its kind of hard to stay in touch anyway because of the 7 hours time diffrence.
I just stopped calling him because afterwords I feel even worse, and if he calls its like for 3 min and it feels like it's a call he have to make, so wifey can't say any.. I rather don t talk at all then.
Thank you for your answers
M