Me and my girlfriend (now ex) had been dating for about 8months and one day I get this email: I don't know if you were drunk or whatever but I know and would have thought you'd told me. Anyway not upset, just angry. Don't call, text, message me or anything - I don't want to know thanks.. so after talking to a friend that had spoken to her I found out that someone told her that I hooked up with someone at a party which I didn’t! She has since broken up with me and I miss her so much. I have been trying to think that maybe it’s for the best and that if she doesn’t believe me or trust me after months then it is for the best but I know deep down it’s not for the best because I love her so much and it was all going so well and I just don’t know what to do. To make it worse she’s a singer and she’s already written a song about it which just killed me and I don’t know what to do. Like it says I tried to plead my case to her but she wouldn’t text me back or email me back until she sent me an email telling me that even if I didn’t do anything it will always be in the back of her mind that it did and its better for us to break up. This isn't really a question I just need some advise.

I think you should text her back and say *hay* and the she can text u back and say *hay* and then you would like really friggin connect!
Feeling me ?

No I'm not feeling you

If she can't trust you than there is no relationship. But the question is, would there be a reason why she isn't trusting you?

Hmm yeah I guess. No there isn't a reason I can think of I haven't done anything to make her not trust me.

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Originally Posted by sambam1111

hmm yeah i guess. no there isnt a reason i can think of i havent done anything to make her not trust me.

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Than it is just her insecurities. You need a heart to heart talk with her to let her know you love her and to make a relationship work you need trust. That is the most you can do and if she isn't receptive, you can't force her to do anything.

Yeah I think that is what I'm going to have to do thanks for your help

Going through the same thing and it sucks . What do you do when you love her more then yourself and you try so hard to show her she's the only one you see,love,care for, wwnt next to at night, cook for, help clean up even though I hate it, and share the restnof my life with... I wouldn't know whqt to do if I lose her and to make it worse I Didn't DO ANYTHING!!

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