My fiancé needs space but she also has feelings for another man.
Hi me and my girlfriend are having serious issues right now.
Im 21 she's 20 and we've been together for about two years. Were also engaged. Now from viewing we seem like the perfect couple we love each other so much. The problem has occurred out of the blue. Basically as a joke I said we should go on an 1 month open relationship she said yes and was serious about this. I didn't like it but hey I thought if that's what she wanst/needs than so be it. Anyway we both gave ground rules and one person each who was a no go. Within the first day of this she got completely wasted and kissed such guy. She told me how happy she felt, that it was the happiest she's felt in a long time, having the freedom to be able to what she wants. She has now admitted to having feelings for him. Now she is also stressed out with uni and she's scared were in a rut, and were in a habit. She's asked for some space which I will give to her. I don't know whether she needs space and then we will be fine or she's falling out of love with me and in love with this guy. I mean it could just be lust. We have still kissed and she still said she loved me. She's so confused and she doesn't know what she wants. I'm scared if I giver her space she's just going to use it as a way of seeing if her and the guy are compatible and the like. I love her so much, I don't want her to leave. We've had our ups and downs surely this can't be the end. Its come just out of the blue. Any advice??