I lost my job and I'm wondering can my spouse take out his 401K since I was the one who brought in the most income?

I believe you can take it out but it will have all the tax, penalties and any other deductions stated in the plan

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Whether he can withdraw money from his 401(k) depends on his plan provisions. Not all plans permit in service withdrawals.

But if his plan does allow them, I would advise against doing it. The tax and penalties would cut too deeply into your savings to make it worth it.