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  • Aug 27, 2009, 09:42 PM
    RACHELFISHER
    Dreaming of the dead
    Hi ,
    My brother committed suicide a year ago now, I was very close to him and found it very hard to deal with, but felt as though I had dealt with it.
    A couple of nights ago, I dreamt that he was at my sister's house and I was talking to him.
    But in my dream his skin was all dull and grey and cold exactly like he was in the morgue, when I saw him just after he died!
    What does this mean? My partner has told me that it is a bad omen to dream about the dead, and that it means I will die soon maybe?
    I am really scared and worried now and I can't get the dream out of my mind!
    If any one has any insight on this, or any helpful information that would be very helpful.
    Does this just mean that subconsciously I am really messed up?>
    Eeek I don't know.
    HELP PLEASE! Its doing my head in!
  • Aug 27, 2009, 09:44 PM
    hheath541

    My guess is that you just miss him, which is obvious, and your mind picked the last image of him it has. Have you been thinking about him a lot lately?
  • Aug 27, 2009, 09:46 PM
    RACHELFISHER

    No I haven't been thinking about him heaps as such!
    Just been going about my usual daily duties of work etc.
    But after dreaming that it has messed me up a fair bit
  • Aug 27, 2009, 10:19 PM
    hheath541

    I honestly don't think it's an omen that you're going to die, so stop thinking about that. Just remember your brother.
  • Aug 31, 2009, 08:40 AM
    JudyKayTee

    I see no omen here at all - I see your brother always on your mind, consciously or subconsciously, and you cannot control your thoughts of him when you are sleeping.

    As far as dreams are concerned - I am a widow and I often dream of my husband BUT his back is always turned toward me and he always says that it's too soon for me to see his face.

    Dreams are just that - dreams. I find no omen in my dreams and I find no omen in yours.

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