How can I initiate with my husband during sex.

Tell him what you want, and what you like. Ask him what HE wants. Start kissing him, and tell him that you want him. He needs to know you are attracted to him, and things such as that, just like You do.

How old are you hon?


There are many ways to initiate sex with your husband. Simply wear nothing, sit in his lap while he watches TV, and kiss his neck. See what happens ;)

Simple... just do it... when you want something you tell him. Unless he is one of those, "He is man...him king of jungle" Types. The rest of us have no problems with our wives letting us know when they want something.

Men actually looove that a woman is able to take the lead, and start the sexual encounter.
I know that when someone says it, we make it sound really easy, and in reality, it is. Men are like dogs (in the best way possible, I'm an animal lover :P) you just have to pay attention to him and he'll be up for the challenge.

It really depends because sometimes guys get really tired of the same sex partner but doesn't mean he's cheating it means he's not attracted to you any more I know it sounds mean but it's the truth

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Originally Posted by JEREMIE99

it really depends because sometimes guys get really tired of the same sex partner but doesnt mean hes cheating it jus means hes not attracted to you any more i know it sounds mean but its the truth

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That is a REALLY mean thing to say, itt may be truth, but I thought it was so cruel :(

What I'd say to you, he's your husband, if you guys lost the atraction and the spark talk to hm, and try to get t back, do fun stuff together, do things that tturn you both on..

OK guys we don't have enough information from the OP to make a lot of real decisions or give good advise here.

I suggest the OP come back and fill us in on why she is asking this question.

True..

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Originally Posted by jenniepepsi

ok guys we dont have enough information from the OP to make alot of real decisions or give good advise here.

i suggest the OP come back and fill us in on why she is asking this question.

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It doesn't matter why she's asking it, it's a pretty straightforward question.

She wants to initiate sex with her husband. There could be lots of reasons, just like there are lots of ways to go about this.

My suggestion is to ask him what he likes, what he wants, what turns him on.

Communication is imortant, you can't read his mind so ask him.

Good luck.

Got to spread the rep alty :)

Yeah I know that. I meant for what jerimie and luvgirl were getting into.