He won't sleep with me. Is it me, or is it him?
So I'm 27, and a couple of years ago began a relationship with a man 10 years my senior. Things moved really quickly and I fell hard for him. Then he started having problems - financial, emotional, he declared bankruptcy and spiralled into a deep depression. The "relationship" was off, although we were still sleeping together. I know he wasn't seeing anyone else and neither was I. I was there for support and at that point, I was getting something out of it too. Now he's somewhat better but feels it's wrong to sleep with me because he doesn't want to "lead me on". I feel like he's made this decision and instead of talking to me about it, he's just stopped all affection and expects me to be okay about it. It's been a couple of months without it now, and I've tried to talk to him about it but he just says it's wrong. He never had a problem with it before. I still stay at his house all the time, sleep in his bed yet nothing happens. Why is it like this? Is there something wrong with me, or is it him? I'm feeling really resentful and rejected and seriously considering going somewhere else for some fun, because I am getting nothing out of this arrangement. I've talk to friends abot it and they think there's something wrong with him, as "south" usually wins the battle, not the brain when it comes to intimate relations. Any advice for me? :(