His father likes seeing him, but he doesn't want to deal w/me. He would like for us to have my husband adopt him. But I'm not sure how to go about doing that. I just need to be set in the right direction and I think I'll be fine. I already called and left a message for the Child Support Worker and summed it up for her. What do I do?

First your sons father needs to relinquish his rights, which it sounds like he is willing to do so, which makes it much easier.

You will need to contact the court that handles adoption in your county. The social support worker will more than likely send you there.

This site should help you a great deal :) good luck hon.
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