Why my boyfriend of five years thinks I' am all about money?
My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. When I met him I was a bartender in a club making good money, paying my own bills, and taking care of my three children, I even had extra money to spend. After me and him got together I stopped working in the club because he told me I could do better, and I listened! It was very hard trying to find another job, so I decided to go to school. He said that he would pay my bills for me, I didn't ask him. So since that time I've graduated and have another job. When we get into arguments he likes to say that I'am with him for his money, but I never really ask him for anything unless I really need to, or if I'am a li'l short that month. Why would he keep saying that if I don't ask him for money and he doesn't volunteer to give it either? He says anything I want I can have but if I ask for something later on he throws it up in my face.
What should I do? Puzzled!!
What would you do if your boyfriend doesn't spend the night
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What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't spend the night with me for a whole week, doesn't call or text me. He is going through a divorce, and him and his wife have a house together, and he's out there! He says because her family and his family is there and he doesn't want people to think that they can do whatever they want to in his house, he claims he sleeps on the couch, but he also has a key to my house and he could be sleeping comfortably with me! This isn't the first time this has happened. I tried to talk to him about it but he just gets mad and starts an argument, saying that I'am not there for him in his time of need, HIS DIVORCE!! I changed my locks to my house, do you think thar was good enough or should I just move on? Need opinions from perfect strangers instead of family and friends!