21 and no relationship dating a 27 divorced with 2 kids
I am the mother of the 21 girl who has had no relationships just friend guys. An outside source recommended her to his friend who just got divorced last year and has a 1 year old and 5 year old. My daughter is in college and is vey spoiled to not sharing. She has another set of friends who are pushing this because the guy is a good guy. However, my daughter and I have been so close and we are having major disputes. The other people can't understand they should not have influenced the relationship. My daughter does not realize the children will be first in the guy's life-which would only be right-and the ex-wife would always be there. I tried t o explain that she could not just throw the children to the side like she does her dog. She cried this past week for me to go to the dentist with her, and she thinks she can handle a ready made family. I want her to experience life and make life with another together and to learn together family responsibilities. I don't want her to go into a relationship where she will be put on the backburner. She has been a good kid and to me she doesn't deserve this type of relationship. Should I just back off and let her see if it will be a mistake as so many others have in this type of relationship? I