B/f does not have sex with me in over a month what's really going on?
I was wondering if my b/f is dreaming about other women because I noticed that he reaches down there while asleep and does what I am not sure? But he often has a erection and I was wondering if its because he is dreaming about having sex with someone else. For the last month or so he has not want to have sex with me and when I mention it he has no real answer. WE got in a fight 2 weeks ago because I am sick and tired of him staying up all night pretending he is working but I believe he is watching porn and I know for a fact he is having sex with himself rather than with me he even admitted it. His new found best friend that he spends all his time with no matter how many times I told him how much this is bothering me his friend is very out going and very social and single. And the things that come out of his mouth about women in front of me bother me a lot . My b/f even takes him to work with him now for the past month actually when he started hanging out with guy is when he stopped having sex with me I hear his friend talking about women he'd seen while shopping. ( MY b/f goes to every target and walmrt and other department stores in the surrounding area like 6 or 7 different ones everyday evaluating them on X-amount of things so he spends time just walking around the stores checking things. They even know some of the women by name. This bothers me and when I talk to him about it he acts like here we go again and gets mad at me tells me I am tripping. So one night I had enough when he left for work with his friend was gone 8 hrs and yet had nothing to show for the time he was gone . Brought me flowers?? And tried to explain but I did not want to hear it I told him he was choosing his friend over me before this guy came along we use to mystery shop together and he paid me but now he'd rather take him and I noticed that he has a wandering eye more now and the thing that hurts the most is that when we got in a fight recently and I was accusing him that he must be gay that's why he'd rather spend all his time w/friend and thatr was the reason we don't have sex anymore he told me the reason he hasn't wanted to have sex is because I am a fat whore... And that him an his friend have to fine es they go and see. He told me the next day that he only told me this because I was saying he was a fag I am confused I don't know what to do I think he is not sexually attracted to me anymore and he really desires another woman but hasn't had the guts to tell me or maybe he did when he called me a fat whore