I have dumped my ex boyfriend 4 times because of things like family problems, and its been a stressful time. I still really like him and I think he still likes me, but another girl is determined to make him hers. What should I do? If I should tryband get him back, HOW do I do that? Or should I just get over him?

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How old are you and what type of family problems?
Because if you are young and the family problem is they don't want you seeing him then you will just have to explain that you really care and want to be with him but it would have to be when you are older.

4 times? Something is very wrong with you, or him that he takes that off you. Leave him alone for now, and let him have some fun, because being dumped that many times ain't no fun.

Im almost 14 and my parents don't want me having a boyfriend, but they are also fighting a lot and it really upsets me. I get depressed a lot and I'm not to fun to be around sometimes. I dumped him last time because he always seemed sad that I wasn't really paying attention. I talked to my parents and they stopped fighting for a while, but I really think that having someone to talk to is a good idea. Sadly, all my friends don't understand the situation and think I'm over-reacting. I don't want to talk to someone I don't really know about it either.

So why can't he be your best friend and moral support without the added title of boyfriend?

You have a point. But I really like him.

Thank you for all your help :) I appreciate it.

So.. Should I just be friends with him... And try and ignore my feelings... Or what?

Please help me!!

There's this girl who really likes my ex, and I dumped him because she said they were going out, but they wernt. I really want him back but I doubt he will go back out with me because I have dumped him 4 times. What do I do!!

Leave him alone. No one needs an up and down relationship.

I imagine you are young, dating when your age is appropriate is a learning experience, not a clinging experience.

Learn from your mistakes but don't go back to the same relationship.

Ok :( thanks

Please don't post multiples on the same subject. You aren't going to get any more answers than if you stick to one and it gets confusing.

What do you do. Like I told you before you be honest and tell him that you really really like him but your parents don't want you having a boyfriend so you end up dumping him.

You don't have to ignore your feelings, but you do have to deal with them a lot better.

What if someone dumped you 4 times? That would get old fast wouldn't it? Especially every time something goes wrong in your life you dump him. How is that fair?

You must not like him that much is the message you send. Its wrong to treat someone you care about that way, don't you think? So why are you doing it and expecting him to try again??

If its support, and someone to talk to you need, well that's what friends are for, and you don't need a boyfriend to abuse for that do you?

Come on, this isn't equal or fair, and maybe you don't need to be in a relationship, if your going to treat him like a yo yo, that's no fun. You really do need to change your attitude and behavior, or no one will want to have fun with you.