Should I take my girlfriend back?
I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We have everything in common, we are like two peas in a pod. She does everything for me and was even planning to relocate her job to live with me. I definitely love her... Now for the negative part...
I found out one day on a cruise in the bahamas that she called her ex boyfriend... She obviously didn't want me to find that out. She said she was clearing things up because they went out for 5 years and lived together. We were only dating 6 months so I sort of understood. Throughout our relationship she would talk to him but she would tell me they chat only once in a blue moon and I shouldn't feel threatened. Things would happen and I became suspicious. I checked her phone bill and saw that they talked on a weekly basis sometimes more. I didn't say anything though. She would always tell me she hasn't talked to him in awhile etc etc. I found her a few times checking his profile on myspace too... and he has a picture of them up on it.
A few days ago I confronted her about it and asked her, more like pleaded with her to stop. After all we are about to move in together... She wouldn't do it, saying that I was being jealous and crazy for looking at her phone bill. I just felt like crap so I broke up with her. She was a mess crying for 2 days.. then she all of a sudden called me up saying I wasn't worth it and she's better without me and she doesn't give a $@%#$. I think she's just being prideful...
Well, what should I do? Did I do the right thing or maybe she is right? I'm pretty sure I could get her back if I tried hard enough but do I even want to?? Why the hell didn't she just stop talking to him for me? Any help would be greatly appreciated, thanks...