Hang with the ex, or tell him to go to hell?
Ohkay, here is my dilemma. My boyfriend and I have been together for a month yesterday. Yesterday my ex calls me and wants to hang out with me. This guy and I have been through hell and high waters for each other and were together for a while. I met my current boyfriend on our 8th month anniversary, the day that I said "screw this, i have to get out of the house and do something." My ex wants to hang out and "catch up" and I'm ohkay with catching up, and I made it plainly clear that I had a boyfriend and that nothing is going to happen between us, but I really did love this guy and YES I do still have some kind of feelings for him, however. I'm not sure if they are "in love" feelings or just the fact that I have love for him. I haven't been with my current boyfriend long enough to say that I love him, but I know that there are some major feelings there. I just don't know, what would you do in my situation? I mean I have love for both of these guys but I can't have both, nor do I want both... what would you do? Would you hang out with the ex or tell him no?