My mother brags about dating a married man!
My mom has been dating a married man for the past year who lives in another province, which is about 12 hours away. She sees nothing wrong with dating a man who is married and brags about it every chance she gets. I can't even talk to her all she talks about is him. It gets worse as the months go by. She tells me EVERY detail of their relationship, she doesn't only tell me, anyone who will listen has to hear it. Her friends seem to support her. She'll call me at least once a day and tell me what she texted him at what time and what he texted back at what time, all word for word. I don't even respond when she talks to me about him yet she keeps blabbing on. I don't want to be too rude to her I just don't know what to say. I've told her I don't agree with what she's doing and I'm uncomfortable knowing every detail of their relationship, but she still talks about him constantly and that is an understatement. She's obsessed, she needs to know where he is at every second of the day, if he's free to talk to her she drops everything to talk to him. I recently had my first child and she was out of town visiting him, because it was the only time he could get to see her in January, I really wanted my mom with me during the delivery, but she's made it clear that he's more important than her family. She's 45, I'm 22 my sisters are 20 and 18 and all we hear about is HIM . He has an office in the city nearest to where my mom lives so they meet there and she gets to see him in the evening when he's done work, so she goes for 3 days and sees him for about 10 hours, what kind of relationship is that? These trips happen about every 2 months. She talks about his wife all the time, speculating on what she thinks she looks like and how she must be a horrible person if her husband cheats on her. Everyday there is some type of drama going on between my mom and him, mostly she thinks that he's cheating on her. There's so many things I could say about this My mother is demented and obsessive how do I deal with her?