This guy that I am really close to (and we are pretty much in a relationship and have been for a couple years now) seems to have a new interest in me. We spend lots of time together and when we do sometimes he says he wants to touch me. I don't know what to say to him though because I know its something we should both refrain from doing. What should I do?

Tell him what you think. If you want to wait, and he likes you, he will respect you. If he does not, move on, he is not worth it. Never let go of your values for a guy!

I don't know how old you are but if you are young enough to not know if he should touch you or not then you are too young, touching leads to other things and I am sure that you are not ready for that yet. You should never let a guy do anything to you that you are not wanting to do. Young boys sometime think that every thing in their lives should result in sex so don't be a part of their game.

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Originally Posted by linlinv

This guy that i am really close to (and we are pretty much in a relationship and have been for a couple years now) seems to have a new interest in me. We spend lots of time together and when we do sometimes he says he wants to touch me. I don't know what to say to him though because I know its something we should both refrain from doing. What should I do?

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The part that I highlighted has me confused. How can you be "pretty much in a relationship"? You either are or aren't.

How old are you? You sound very young.

If you don't want touching then you don't have to accept touching, no matter what the guy wants. Tell him you aren't ready, if he respects you and likes you he'll understand, if not then you'll see him for who he really is and you can move on.

Good luck.

Say no, if he is OK, then its good, but if he doesn't like your answer and continues, MOVE ON

You are too young for touching.If you do not understand what he means by touching ,you are too young!
Tell him no.
It is O.K. to have male friends but if he is making you uncomfortable you need to tell him that.

Just say no and mean it.

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Originally Posted by Snowbie

Say no, if he is ok, then its good, but if he doesnt like your answer and continues, MOVE ON

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I am not trying to be mean to you sweetheart but you need to be doing things that are for people your age.You are too grown up or pretending to be grown up.
You are 10 and you might be a very smart ten yr.old you are still a kid.
I know you want to help but this is too adult for you.:rolleyes:

You can IM me if you ever want to talk about anything.. my door is always open :)
For real and I am a good listener.
When Im not talking:)