I want to know what the worst thing could happen he's16 and we live in indianapolis indianai we just went threw the process for him to go to job corps but now it looks like he want be going I just feel so bad because I didn't do it sooner he has never been in trouble before I don't know what happen it makes me feel like it's my fault I try to be a good mother so I don't know where I went wrong we from Mississippi he change since we been here he even tries talking back in his on little way what do you think would happen to him I'm just so upset it hurts so bad I work my fingers to the bone to give him a happy home I don't know what else to do can someone please give me some advice:(:(:(

Was arested and chared with auto theft and fleeing from police officer and he is sixteen years old and he never been in trouble before do you think I am a bad mom I try very hard to give him what he need but I don't give him with he want:(

Wost case , Ok worst case

They send him to adult court, not Juv court, he is given up to 5 years in prison, does not behave and does not get any parole. Upon getting out he will still have a 10,000 fine to pay off plus any damage plus interest on the value to the car.

Now that is worst,
Most likely he will be given ordered to take counseling ( he has to pay for it) there will be a large ( very large) fine to pay and he will get about 5 years probation including drug tests.

While there are some jerks that may think you a bad mom, no even from the best homes some kids just do wrong. It is often the peer pressure they get into, and normally while I know you don't want to hear this, drugs will have a place in this somewhere, often when personality changes.

Hello again, laurie:

This is the legal board. You get legal advice here. If you want to know if people think you're a bad mom, post that question in the parenting category.

There's no way to tell what will happen to your son. There's many, many factors that go into that decision, and at this point in time, THAT decision is NOT written in stone.

That means that the outcome CAN be effected by the actions taken NOW. The FIRST action, should be to hire a lawyer.

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But the beat him bad and I don't have money to get a lawyer and he can't see or speak his to swollen will it was 4 of them 1 got release and he said that johnathan was pass out but I quess that he was faking he said the police officers started kicking and stumping him in the face that's why they told me that they could't let me see him but I quess I can't do anything about it they said that I could come and see him tomorrow but the lady at juvenile said I probably wouldn't want to so whay you think I can do or need to do please help please

He will be entailed to a legal aid if you can't afford a lawyer.Do you know what day he has to be in court,the lawyer can try and help him be released from Juvi then .Then you and the lawyer can take it from there. If he is being charged as a Juvi,that helps a lot. See if it's possibly to speak to a legal aid before time.

He will not be released ( if they did not release him to you on the first day) until he goes to court.