Hi , I've never done anythink like this before but , yep my life is atm , I feel so down all the time my grandad has got days to live with lung cancer , my mum is completely broken and we keep rowing it gets so bad. And I think she is having a break down , I've started to do things I shouldn't do . ****s n its getting me down so much , I'm 16. My whole life ahed of me but I just feel like I can't deal with anhthink anymore. Help me I don't no wt else to do x

You can pick up your socks and be there for your mom and grandad. Is that a good option. You have a lot more energy at l6 then you mom probably does dealing WITH HER FATHER'S ILLNESS. Try to think of what the shoe would be like on the other foot, and your mom being really ill. So get on with it!

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Originally Posted by sexy_lil_pod

hi , iv never done anythink like this before but , yep my life is atm , i feel so down all the time my grandad has got days to live wid lung cancer , my mum is completly broken and we keep rowing it gets so bad. n i think she is haveing a break down , iv started to do things i shouldnt do . ****s n its geting me down so much , im 16. my whole life ahed of me but i just feel like i can't deal with anhthink anymore. help me i dont no wt else to do x

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Yes you are depressed. I think u should settle down and relax for a while. I know how it fells to have someone you love have cancer my mom does. Just try to help them feel better and relax.

When life makes you scraps--- make a quilt.
Help your mum and gramps

The stress is breaking you apart. Be careful with that, take time to get out and vent your anger, fear, and any other negative stressers.

I'd say you are anxious, on account you seem pretty agitated, especailly by how you've written, and your use of language. Anxiety can lead to depression, in that there is a point a person simply can't take the stress any more. So they can either explod, or implode. If they explod they just get mad at every one and every thing, then end up feeling terrible after any way. If you implode you'll tear yourself apart, and systimatically bring yourself into a emotional state of emptiness.

It's OK, to be angery, and afraid and any number of other things. Yes, there are things you "should" do to help others out, make them feel better. But if you don't find a way to feel better, then how will you have to energy(positive) to help them? Maybe go talk to a counseler, it sounds like a sound start.

Depression, has more to do with lethargy, apathey, slowed motion, loss of consentration, confution, lack of motivation, extream change in eating habbits (mosr or less.), with drawing from friends family, feelings of emptyness/ worthlessness/ insignificante, and so on...

I hope things get better for you. And I hope that helps.

Peace and kindness be with you.