Originally Posted by
MamaNik
My ex sister in law is about to file for divorce with my exhusband's brother. Unlike my ex, he was more of an involved father but not by much. My sister in law moved to Arkansas when she was 17 to be with him. They were married for 15 years-dated for 4. He has always been very controlling and now at 32 yrs old and receiving her graduate degree-she has had enough of being disregarded and not having any say in their finances, friends, and wants. She wants to move to Florida and start new and have the support of her family because all of his family is in Arkansas and the grandmothers have already begun talking badly about the mother to the grandchildren (ages 11 and 8). Father of children refuses to allow "his children" move out of city (Little Rock) and said he would not sign any divorce papers if moving is requested. Is it best for her to move now before the divorce is filed and therefore it is a non issue?