He want to move in together and I want to be engaged first
My boyfriend has been unofficially living with me for the last 7 months- his clothes are here and he stays every night. Recently he keeps bringing up officially living together. I have been blowing it off and changing the subject. When we first met I said I did not want to live with someone and share a home with them unless I was engaged or married. This was when we first met, now I feel awkward repeating myself. I don’t want to appear like I am giving him an ultimatum. How can I discuss this without it being intense and hopeully being positive?