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  • Jan 18, 2009, 05:58 PM
    meeeee
    Spicing things up!
    My boyfriend and I are going really well, however everything seems to be the same, he kisses the same, and things are always the same in the bedroom. How can I suggest spicing things up without hurting his feelings?
  • Jan 18, 2009, 06:50 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Couples should be free to talk and discuss everything I a bed room
  • Jan 18, 2009, 11:22 PM
    GAMEL

    Maby you should start by kissing him different. Making things more hot and heavy.
    You make the first move and he'll follow. For instance if he's always on top get on him and make all the moves. If your too nrevous to tell him you want more that is.. if your willing to talk to him tell him you want more excitement tonight. Grab his hands and put them on your body... but you should never be to scared to offend him by telling him you want spice things up.. you never know maby he'll be more then happy to change things around. And I'm sur eonce that happeneds things will be different, he'll be the on making new segestions. Good luckk
  • Jan 18, 2009, 11:24 PM
    GAMEL

    Maby you should start by kissing him different, making things more hot and heavy.
    You make the first move and he'll follow. For instance if he's always on top get on him and make all the moves. If your too nrevous to tell him you want more that is.. if your willing to talk to him tell him you want more excitement tonight. Grab his hands and put them on your body... but you should never be to scared to offend him by telling him you want spice things up.. you never know maby he'll be more then happy to change things around. And I'm sure once that happeneds things will be different, he'll be the on making new seggestions. Good luckk
  • Jan 18, 2009, 11:25 PM
    aaj2008

    Talk to him... communication is the key to everything and I stand by that
  • Jan 18, 2009, 11:31 PM
    GAMEL

    Communication is the key. But sometimes its hard to just go out with what you want to say. Actions speak louder then words.
  • Jan 18, 2009, 11:33 PM
    aaj2008

    But can also freak him out if you do something he was not ready for... I agree that actions speak louder than words but you have to be able to talk to you partner and explore at the same time
  • Jan 19, 2009, 05:43 PM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ds-258162.html

    Your 16, and bored already? Yes having sex with a 22 year old is illegal, no wonder you didn't want your parents to know! Hard to believe they are okay with everything.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...-284190-2.html

    So he is back??

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