First of all this relationship is over and done with, but I always wondered if I waited too long to have sex with my ex. This relationship never progressed into sex it is not because we both didn't want it really bad... I just didn't want to rush into it. He was so understanding. And he is still to this day the absolute best kisser and the trigger for all of my sexual fantasies. He was the complete opposite of all of the guys I date. The relationship kind of just ran its course we did not part on bad terms we both wished each other well. Was 9 months just simply too long to wait?

I don't think so you would have had sex when you were ready you were the only one that could say you or nay

Well.. there must've been some reason why you parted... the lack of sex doesn't seem like a big enough issue to break up... 90% of the time having sex too early is a problem vs. having it too late.. it's never too late.. what's too late is when your pregnant :)