he's having trouble getting hard.am i doing something wrong?
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my boyfriend has been having trouble staying hard during sex. He becomes limp and soft at random (usually right after penetration) and sometimes has trouble becoming hard. I'm his frist so I don't expect him to be an expert but if I'm the first he's ever had sex with, shouldn't it be easy for him to become hard? My ex had the same issue. He started smoking a lot of weed and it became harder for him to get any kind of erection and when he did, it would become limp within seconds. I keep thinking that I'm not turning him on enough. I mean, if my ex started going limp for no reason, what else can it be besides me?! He's been researching it and says that it may be due to high cholesterol, high blood pressure or over stimulation. He used to masturbate often and has no problem getting hard there but when it comes to actual sex, well, you know. In fact, he says that during sex (or foreplay) all he's thinking about is how long he's going to stay hard for. He tries not to think about it but he says that he's worried he's going to disappoint me because he 'knows' its going to go limp quick. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions on what to do or what the problem could be?