Dating older married man who thinks I'm unfaithful
I'm dating a married man who is twenty years older than me. Other than the obvious problem, he also has trust issues and is convinced I'm going to cheat on him because his wife has admitted to cheating on him eight times and she's left him twice since they've been married. (Three years) I know they are no longer having sex based on both admitting it. But the wife came back just before I started dating 'dave' because she knew he was going to be coming into money. Here's my problem... How do I convince him that I'm not her and I'm not going to hurt him like she has? Am I just waiting to be hurt myself? It's been nine months and no steps have been taken towards divorce. What should I do? I love him but I'm afraid of being its too because my last relationship didn't end so well. I was a victim of domestic violence so my confidence is completely shattered. Am I just reading into things too much and my own insecurities are causing problems or is there really a problem with my relationship?