My pregnant girlfriend left me. Is it the horomones? What do I do
So I met this amazing girl during the summer and was very hesitant to get involved with her. For one thing she just left her husband but told me she was going through a divorce. I really liked her after hanging out but refused to get involved. She persuaded me that she loved me and that she is done with her husband. After the summer she moved in with me and things we were great. After about 2 months she gave me a scare and told me she was thinking about going back to her husband. I was devastaded and cried and even slept downstairs for the night. The next morning I tried to leave for work early and she got intimate with me as she saw how emotional I was. She decided to stay to think about things and then a few days later she tells me she is pregnant. My first response was do you want an abortion? She seemed to have a I don't care attitude while I was the one crying. She told me how the pregnancy is the answer to her problems and she is supposed to stay with me. During her first month of pregnancy she just became this different person. No affection... I couldn't be intimate with her and she had no motivation to do anything all day.
I would come home from work and just see nothing but hatred in her eye. It came to the point where I felt for her so much that I offered her a plane ticket home to see her family. She seemed really happy about it considering how bored she was being alone at my house. After I bought her plane ticket she would just post on her myspace like 10 more days then 9 etc. Then we went to our 2nd ultrasound and she just didn't speak with me. Finally I asked her what is going on and she told me she doesn't see a future with me. I was heartbroken and even called the airline to change her flight for the next day cause I felt she just needed space.
As she was packing I felt like I couldn't breathe. She told me to calm down and everything will be fine. She needed to come back for the rest of her stuff and how she wanted us to work cause I was the dad. When she got home she deleted me from her life. Deleted pics of us on her myspace and even said she was single. Things got really ugly and she said she is coming back and leaving to go back home. I ended up cancelling her flight back cause she threatened that I couldn't. I felt powerless and I paid over 500 bucks for her to come back to my place just to leave. She wouldn't give me answers and said she doesn't want to talk about us. She even told me she was speaking with her husband of what it would be like if they got back together.
She ended up coming back that day even when I cancelled the flight. I was at work while she came and I had all her stuff packed in her car so she could be in and out. I forgot to pack 1 item but I just thought she wouldn't be showing up and I figured I would see her. She ended up packing and leaving. I decided to call her and next thing I know she puts me on the phone with the cops and she is on my driveway asking for this one item. I just felt hurt cause all she had to do was ask me and I would have gave it to her. I was terrified and legally the cops couldn't enter my house so she just left. Its been almost 2 weeks now and I haven't heard from her. I am afraid to call or even email... how much of this can be the horomones?
Please ladies any advice... cause I am losing it not knowing where she is or what she wants
