Pretty sure I was played.
So I have gone on a few dates with this guy over the 7-8 months. For the past few months we haven't talked at all. This last weekend he called me and asked me if I wanted to hang out. So I did. I went with him while he ran some errands and then we picked up a pizza and a movie and headed back for his house. While we were watching the movie we kissed a little bit and he got a little handsy. I told him that I didn't want to have sex unless I was in a relationship. So he said well that's make it offcial and be together. I still told him no sex but we did fool around a little bit. But here is the problem on the date he opened my door for me and was sweet and attentive. But now he won't text me he won't call me. I have even texted and called him. My friend said to give him 3 days and if I hear nothing from him that it was just a line. Is that really how it works? I'm not a cheater and don't want to cheat on him, but how long do I wait for him to get hold of me before I consider myself played?