I dated this girl for about 2 month earlier this year and things did not work out -- the relationship ended. What bothers me the most is that it has been over 9 month since the relationship ended and have not spoken to her since then but to this day I still think about her . How do I stop thinking about this girl? I don't know what do anymore, it's driving me crazy. Is this normal? Please help?

You don't talk to her at all? Not through text or email or anything? Do you have things that remind you of her? If so I would get rid of them. Do you see her anywhere?

I don't talk to her at all. No text, phone or email. I used to talk to her friends but I ended that too, because they keep talking about her and I hated it. So I have no communication with her directly or indirectly. I destroyed anything that reminds me of her. But I still think about her after 9 month. I don't know what to do anymore?

Umm if I were you id get back together with her! Maybe your heart is telling you something!

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Originally Posted by timtim-awesim

umm if i were you id get back together with her! maybe your heart is telling you something!

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That's not an option for me. I just need help forgetting her. I just wonder if it is normal. It's driving me crazy.

Why wouldn't it be an option? Is she no longer single? Did she die?

Oh and I think what you might be going through is this horrible illness called "love"
Quite a rare disease

Time heals all wounds believe me sometimes it takes weeks sometimes it takes three months

Its normal I feel it too I can't this girl out of my mind too

It's absolutely normal to think about your ex but it's not healthy. I think what you need to do is figure out what went wrong and why things should stay the way they are. I think that you also need to accept the fact that she's gone for good no matter what and you are still alive and have a future without her in your life. I would also suggest doing stuff that keeps you active and takes your mind off her. Like surrounding yourself with lots of people and socializing, taking up a hobby, or as for me I use music. In fact I'll even give you a song that really makes me feel better about leaving my ex it's "gone forever" by three days grace. But good luck dude and if you really think that leaving her is for the best then I think that you should really stick to that decision.