My g/f wants us to just be friends
Over the past 7yrs we have probably split up over 100+ (no exagaration!)
Her mouth says she wants us to be friends but her actions say otherwise. If she sees me she's cuddling me, getting undressed in in the same room. So I make a pass and sometimes it's on other times she's not interested?
So we argue and then I agree to being Friends and tell her that there's then, no need for cuddling, getting undressed in front of me etc and to keep it platonic.
She said I couldn't handle myself (as I’m very sexual and want it regularly)and would make a pass but I assured her that I could and would!
I stayed 2wks ago at her place after dropping off a TV. We agreed to the above before I came over and it was fine. In the morning she asked for a back massage. I gave her the massage then left without making a single pass. She then calls me in the evening telling me she had a dream that morning, that we had had sex! Then she said she had wanted to jump me! I told her I hadn't even thought about it!
She invited me back saying lets see what happens. We agreed that there wold be a forfeit to play if either of us made a pass.
She made a pass and jumped on top of me!
I told her that her forfeit was to get off me and stay on her side of the bed!
She did for a short while then promptly striped off and jumped me again! She was all over me and it was great! F Stayed the w/end and left for work on Mon.Then we speak during the week and she behaves like we are 'just' friends again? We argue on Thurs and she explains she wants to be friends and to help me so I can stay at hers on Mon as I'm working in town on Tues (she lives in town) We do not speak again till Mon when she calls to see if I'm still coming. I go and act platonic doing some work on my laptop.
She puts on a film, keeps bending over wearing her PJ’s, touching me and closing the distance between us. We watch the film than I say I want to go to sleep now so we say good night. She keeps talking and I tell her I want to sleep. She apologises and then turns to face me. She gives me that look so I kiss her. Then she pulls back and says no but carries on staring at me. Then she takes off her top and jumps me! In the morning she's all cuddles and we walk to catch public transport with her linking my arm. I come back after work after she calls saying she 's cooking us dinner. Then she brings the dinner acting all cranky because she hasn't eaten all day and then she starts questioning the friendship saying that we’re not sticking to our agreement to be friends! I get dressed and she stays not to go as she’d bought us diner for tomorrow which was her day off and I had planned to work remotely from her house, but I said bye and left! She's now calling me MR Cool as I just walked away yet again.
So my question remains
Is She just playing games?
Any insight is welcomed..