Is it normal to not want to have sex because you feel inexperienced?
Hey,
I've been thinking a lot lately. My last relationship lasted two years. I'm quite young and I was raised in a conservative family so it took a while for me to accept having sex with my boyfriend. We broke up shortly after though (for other reasons) but we only had sex about 5 times?
My problem is that I'm afraid of having sex again. Everyone around me, even my best friends have all slept with at least 5 guys and they always talk about all of the things they do. And now, most guys expect you to put out quite fast and to be up for a lot.
I'm just scared of my own inexperience. The worse thing is on top of it, that for some reason, people tend to think I'm quite experienced, because I come across as very confident (and it doesn't help that I have a curvy figure either)...
It's stopping me from dating the guys that ask me out (to be fair I choose them carefully anyway because I wouldn't want to be with a guy for whom that would be an issue) and I get even more freaked out when everyone around me seems to only be talking about sex and the things they've done!
I'm not sure whehter I have a problem, whether there is anything to do about it but it's eating at me.