Husband Kissing my Best Friend
Hi Everyone, So I have a horrible thing that I am dealing with right now. So this Halloween I was dropped a Bomb I found out that last Halloween My husband and My best friend were completley wasted talking in the Garage and she grabbed his face and they full on kissed. After the kiss she went inside and his other friend came out. My husband started crying not believing what he had just done. We were having a really hard time in our marriage and she knew my feeling HELLO she is my BFF I told her and he was confiding in her to cause they are practically brother and sister have known each other since kids.
Well so after that he was confused even more we fought even more cause he was always out of town. So he got this idea in his head if he was going to kiss her again he would know if it was wrong he couldn't lose me and if he could kiss her and feel nothing that it was done. SO and let me tell you her husband is his BFF so weird situation. So he asked her in the garage new years eve if she had feelings she said no he said well how do you know she said I do he said well lets kiss again and see so they did and they said it was occuard he called her couple days later apoligized said he loved me and knows what he wants. THEN I guess this summer he was dropping her off and she told him oh I could kiss you but I am not going to and he said I Don't WANT YOU TO. So obviously if he wanted her he would have right. What should I do? Do I stay friends with her I love him.
Why do Men Stray from you?
So we have been Married for 4 years going on 5 A year ago my husband did something behind my back that I just found out about where he and my best friend Kissed the first time they were both really drunk and she kissed him makeout kiss and let me tell you she will kiss ANYONE. So if it was left at that then I wouldn't care BUT then my husband became confused. We were going through a really HARD time in our marriage then I mean we both wanted out I think or were sick of the constant fighting every single day. So I think that after that kiss he was confused he thought to that she liked him witch made it even worst. Well things didn't imoprove with us after that and he had a brilliant idea to kiss her again and he would know if our marriage and I was what he wanted to he asked her in our garage just the two of them if she had feeling she told him no. He said are you sure? She said yes I am sure so he told her well lets kiss and see so they did and he said it was so occuard and wrong and he called her a couple days later apoligized said he loved me and the girls and never do it again and that not to tell me cause if I found out then I would divorce him. He said he did this all for selfish reasons and nothing to the effect of having feelings for her it was him figuring our marriage out and he was just trying to get her to kiss him again so he would know? Does this make sense? I am now struggling with why? And is he lying did he having feelings? And how could he risk our family? Do I believe him?
Is it normal to feel hateful after they cheat
I feel so aweful because after my husband went behind my back a year ago and kissed my best friend in figuring out our marriage. I am so hateful at first I was very sad then loving now I am just annoyed. Like I can't control the anger this morning I told him I hated him. I LOVE HIM TO DEATH and can't live without him. Is this normal? Will I hate him so much that it will be over I NEED HELP?? :(