Originally Posted by pjp
Well.. she just called me before lunch and apologize. to those out there that read my questions and concerns. thanks so much. I think very soon she will be able to move out soon. We would like to see her do that. She really needs some space to grow now. It would be my preference for her to just stay at home save money and buy and storage furniture for future apt. but keeps spending her money. So I think this time we are going to loosen her curfew and get her to pay some rent.. and then take some wise advice and put in savings and give back to her. Surprise! anyhow.. we will continue to learn the lessons. and yes I agree I need to change as a Parent in treating her like a grown up. OK.. well bye.. until next time.. thanks for all the advice. bye.