Should I wait for my girlfriend?
Right, this is the first time I'm posting my feelings on something like and unsure of the responses I will get.
Well here goes...
I have been with my girlfriend for 1year and 3months, we used to have little fights/arguments nearly every week and we started sorting things out, weeks would go by without niggling at each other which was great, one night I just turned off and became so bitter after an argument that I was looking for so I could let off steam but it did not happen so I left it.
2 weeks ago my girlfriend said that she thinks we should talk because of a comment I made, yes there are a lot of things like jealousy etc etc which I won't get into but the main thing I want to get into is...
My girlfriend said she needs her space and that we should take a break, as her father is forcing her to study next year but she is confused on working or studying which is a factor and I understand that she needs to sort those issues out and I have been putting pressure on her as my jealousy got out of control (which is now in the process of being controlled)
She said to me that she does want to be with me and I said I will wait for her as I do believe she is the one, and when you love somebody so much you will fight till the bitter end, I sent a message last nyt saying sweet things and she said that it was the sweetest message ever and it made her cry so I asked if it was happy tears and she said of course and that it makes her thing what she is doing doing without me and what she is missing out with me, I spoke to her about an hour ago to see what she meant and she said there are a lot of idiots out there and here I am right under her nose and she doesn't know what she is doing. She tells me there is no one else and no one will come between us while we on this break. I just don't know, I want to wait and be there for her cause I will fight for her and she is so worth waiting for but I don't want us to grow apart while we on the break which she told me we won't. And she is so happy and great that I feel this way for her. What advice to you people have for me, I'm sure a lot of you have been in a similar situation. She is 20 I am 24.