Why is it that someone is sooo into me when I am not that serious about them and otherwise busy and when I am truly in love and devoted to someone men lose interest. Just curious because this seems to happen a lot to me and my g.friends. Do men really like women then that play -hard to get- or do they prefer women who are sincere and open about their interest and feelings. I don't think ill ever understand this!:confused:

An unanswerable predicament. Some guys are straight arrows, others play games.

Some guys like emotionally attached/needy girls, others prefer independent ones.

Some like you, some don't. No rhyme nor reason. It is a cosmic pinball game, I like to say.

All you have to do to WIN this game, though, is to keep playing, keep alert, dump the games that are losers and play again, and play again...

Eventually, your game and a REAL KEEPER of a guy's game will sync up and you two will be in for a fun time. Until then, enjoy, don't take everything so seriously, but keep playing.

I have this problem a lot to. Except recently I stopped looking and the one I was looking for all along found me. You just got to give it time, eventually it will happen.

What types of men are you attracted to? What are some of their traits and behaviours? What are some commonalities amongst them?

What are the types of men who are attracted to you? What are their commonalities?