I am a mother of 2 and extremely ashamed. I got caught at Loblaws the other day with my 2 yr old & 5 yr old son. I didn't mean to shoplift - I was in a rush and forgot to pay for some cosmetics. (6 items) .It was in my sons stroller who was very cranky and I didn't see it. I also got charged with Fraud for price switching on a meat ($7) which is also Under $5000. The police gave me Form 9 saying Ive not yet been charged yet , just to apper in court .
Then the other day I got a new summon (form 6) with new dates saying Theft under $5000 and Fraud under $5000 . ( They charged me twice ) I have been given dates for fingerprinting & go to court for December. I don't know what to do. I am so depressed . To make things worse my husband just lost his job ( after my incident) . Its not going good for us. We can't afford a lawyer . This is my 1st time - I have no criminal record or tkts or anything. I am so scared. The total value was less than $100. I don't know what to do . Can I ever get a job - I am in finance. I will have criminal reocrd.
We are supposed to go home in Jan/ to China. I am scared I won't get visa .
I have been reading about diversion program , can I try to get it without a lawyer . PLEASE HELP .