Is my boyfriend an alcoholic?
My boyfriend is a passionate guy, about things he loves. Good Beer is one of his biggest passions. When he is with me, family, or in a low key environement he is content having one or two drinks.
The problem is when he goes out with his guys. HE comes home absolutely wasted , unable to speak, and binge eats, and then blacks out. This happens almost once a week, but only when with friends. I can't tell if it's a "guy" thing, or if he has a major problem. Im starting to think it is one though, and I just told his sister and mother about it.
Im really struggling because when I tel him about the problem he is in denial , and its always the same excuses. He says, "Im bored, im tired, i work so hard, etc. " He said if anyone tried to intervene he wouldn't listen and that he could control it, but I'm not so sure he could. Im near the end and ready to give up. I don't want to be brought down anymore from this.