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  • Sep 29, 2008, 12:10 PM
    bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE
    Passive Aggressive
    Please, I need to know what a passive aggressive mad would act like. Thanks!
  • Sep 29, 2008, 01:25 PM
    tickle
    Passive-aggressive behavior
    From Wikipedia

    Passive-aggressive behavior refers to passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to following authoritative instructions in interpersonal or occupational situations. It can manifest itself as learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible. It is a defense mechanism, and (more often than not) only partly conscious. For example, suppose someone does not wish to attend a party. A passive-aggressive response in that situation might involve taking so long to get ready that the party is nearly over by the time they arrive.
  • Sep 29, 2008, 01:28 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE View Post
    Please, I need to know what a passive aggressive mad would act like. Thanks!


    There's a ton of information on the Internet, much of it copyrighted.

    However, here's a brief quote: Passive-Aggressive Traits...

    "People with PAPD are characterized by covert obstructionism, procrastination, stubbornness, and inefficiency. Such behavior is a manifestation of passively expressed underlying aggression. In the DSM-IV the disorder is also called negativistic PD.

    CLINICAL FEATURES

    PAPD patients characteristically procrastinate, resist demands for adequate performance, find excuses for delays, and find fault with those on whom they depend; yet they refuse to extricate themselves from the dependent relationships. They usually lack assertiveness and are not direct about their own needs and wishes. They fail to ask needed questions about what is expected of them and may become anxious when forced to succeed or when their usual defense of turning anger against themselves is removed.

    In interpersonal relationships, these people attempt to manipulate themselves into a position of dependence, but others often experience this passive, self-detrimental behavior as punitive and munipulative. People with this disorder expect others to do their errands and to carry out their routine responsibilities. "
  • Sep 29, 2008, 02:25 PM
    tickle
    Passive-aggressive behavior
    From Wikipedia

    Passive-aggressive behavior refers to passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to following authoritative instructions in interpersonal or occupational situations. It can manifest itself as learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible. It is a defense mechanism, and (more often than not) only partly conscious. For example, suppose someone does not wish to attend a party. A passive-aggressive response in that situation might involve taking so long to get ready that the party is nearly over by the time they arrive.
  • Sep 29, 2008, 02:28 PM
    bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

    Thank you. Any personal stories?

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