He doesn't want a relationship?
Hi guys I need an honest opinion on what I should do..
Me and my boyfriend (well ex now) were together for about 6 months, overall everything was going really well apart from a few minor arguments.. We are both in our mid twenties.
So last week out of the blue he says that he doesn't think it has been working.. says this always happens to him in relationships, that he's afraid of commitment and wants to be single.Says he's probably going to regret it. I assumed there was someone else but he seems genuine when he says that there's not.
I don't think that I am in love with him but I do care for him and there is a very strong physical attraction between us. So now he says he still wants to talk/hangout as normal (and also sleep together). I told him that I wouldn't sleep with him if he was planning on being with another girl and he said that he was definitely not. Basically everything will be the same as it was but we just won't have the title of bf/gf?
I'm not really sure what to do now? Should I keep hanging out with him? I do still want to be together so maybe by doing this I'm selling myself short and he'll never realise that he made a mistake.. But we get on so well and I really like spending time with him so maybe if we keep hanging out he'll realise that this whole break up thing was silly? Honestly we had the best night a few days ago (after we broke up) talked for hours/laughing etc
I just don't understand why he wants to do this?