18 yr old daughter left without a word . 7mo now, what do I do?
I am a single mom of a wonderful daughter. By wonderful I mean that she has a great heart, never brought about any problems, did well in school, never broke the house rules and so forth.
I raised her on my own. She has always had the nessesities in life.
I am now a school teacher, and throughout her growing up K-7th grade I was super active in her schools and classrooms.
This year in Feb she turned 18 and did not come home.
We had made plans to go to Mexico and take a few of her friends with to celebrate her turning 18. We went to dinner ( sushi) and took a few of her froeinds eearlier in that week.
She turned 18 on a nMonday and that Friday was our Mexico trip. She did not come home. I only received a text that said" leave me alone Im 18 and Im not coming home."
I text back and no response.
SHe was still in high school.
I went to her work and her manager told me I needed to leave or they would call the police to have me removed because she did not want to talk to me. I stayed for dhours and she did not speak to me. I finally left. I went to the school and they said that I was removed from her school records and since she was 18 I was NOT privy to any of the information.
It has been over 7 mo and NO WORD from her. I don't understand what Is going on. I know that I was not a perfect mom but my goodness, no person deser ves to be treated this way.
I left town and now live in another state, I call usually weekly and of course she doesn't answer. I do leave a message telling her that I love her and asking her to call.
I have left some upset and some very casual hey what's going on how is life type of messages. I have yet to hear a word.
I am devistated. She is my only child. She is living with an x girlfriend of mine that doesn't speak to me. I am lost.. Should I stop calling?