Ask Me Help Desk - Am I over jealous?

Recently I am really having a hard time. I don't know I am over jealous or not. Several months ago, I just married. But unluckily, my hubby is appointed to work in a distant countryside. We become weekend couples since then. I have great problem with this. Because one of his co-worker is a young and pretty graduate. They work together, have lunch together, chat in the office a lot and even they live as neighbors... he spent all day long with her... worse still, there are no other attactions in this countryside... they can only stay in the workplace all day long. I am really worried about this... I saw some office-love before... need I do something to prevent the possibility or just trust him? Anyhow, don't want a pregnant woman to come to me one day...
Do you have some good suggestionss for me? Need I really do something?

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Originally Posted by summerrainbow

recently i am really having a hard time. i don't know i am over jealous or not. several months ago, i just married. but unluckily, my hubby is appointed to work in a distant countryside. we become weekend couples since then. i have great problem with this. because one of his co-worker is a young and pretty graduate. they work together, have lunch together, chat in the office a lot and even they live as neighbors...he spent all day long with her...worse still, there are no other attactions in this countryside...they can only stay in the workplace all day long. i am really worried about this...i saw some office-love before...need i do something to prevent the possibility or just trust him? anyhow, don't want a pregnant woman to come to me one day...
do u have some good suggestionss for me? need i really do something?

First, is your concern losing your husband or having him impregnate someone?

Have there been problems in your marriage before?

I don't know what works for other people - I trusted my husband and I'm not a jealous person so I never faced this.

Just a suggestion but you could tell your husband of your fears.

Then listen to his answers.

By the way, what makes you think that a "Pregnant Woman" would return to you? I'm willing to bet she would go anywhere else but to your door. If she gets pregnant, you are in no way responsible!